Ancestral ‘finishing off’ it is being called coming through today, we have been moving through and opening to greater clarity and realisation of that which we have been carrying around since childhood, that which we have been continuing on with that has been passed through the Ancestors, the patterns, conditioning and the beliefs. It’s all been coming up for us to see/feel/know it and then choose what we want to carry forwards with and what we really don’t, what we want to do differently as way of being moving forwards for ourselves, and our children (no matter the age). And this is why we have seen Spirit is saying, a lot of things coming up around our boundaries as many patterns and conditioning, programs have been in place around how we lack in areas of supporting the self, where we have been disrespected or allowed disrespect to occur or continued to be, our values and needs all under ‘review’ as much of it has been unconscious learning through childhood, from birth we are picking up things. So don’t worry if you feel you are still travelling through these things around boundaries with others, you are doing it as you are finishing off and paving a new way forwards that is anchored in self-support, love and reclamation of your power. Some of you may have had some ‘interesting’ we shall call it experiences or situations with others, you may not be close to them or even know them but they have crossed your path and the Universe has invited you to see, recognise and change how you show up for yourself and how you choose to support, empower or not, it’s all about boundaries. So there has also been lots of aha moments and clarity coming in for you which really shapes and paves the way beautifully for you going forwards.
There have been moments and this speaks to close relationships in a big way, over the last few months that you have been given experience, situation, circumstance not to test you although it may have certainly tried your love, patience and trust, but to illuminate for you where you need can perhaps soften and be a little bit more honest with yourself and the part you have played within the relationship, what you have allowed for yourselves or to develop as a long term habit, structure, reaction or trigger to yourself or of another. Lots of opportunity if you allow your heart to lead you rather than the head and wounded ego or wounding, take a moment to see yourself and your reactions and whether what is needed is a softer approach of taking a breath and expressing what you need, and do or don’t like, your why from a space of grounded higher wisdom. There is real change that can be made here that sees the relationship come into a much more open space of trust, acceptance, forgiveness, balance and peace.
Where have you continued to be oh so suborn and dug your heels in and not budged when really if you look at it is it helping anything, can you see that perhaps this is old survival pattern/reaction to when you feel you may be ‘at risk’ of being hurt, can you try a softer approach that allows you to express whilst holding an inner peace that stays you in your power. Its not about giving in or accepting, its about seeing where patterns of behaviour or reaction to are really wounded ego or wound speaking and that this way has not really got you anywhere but allowed things to fester inside rather than release. Its time to take a different way one that stays you in your power but without the attachments and actually invites and opens the door /space to another, and whether they step into it or not to meet you then that is up to them.
The balance of giving and receiving comes in for all of us and this ties into boundaries, Ancestral patterns and conditioning, programs where power dynamics and old ‘its been done this way for generations’ or what you have seen growing up that are now asking you to revisit and revise, to bring to completion for the cycle of the journey you are within. So just be aware of yourself and see if you can see, feel them in motion, remember changing ways of being takes time, it takes walking/waking practice, you don’t get it ‘right’ all the time nor do you have to, your awareness to is the first step and paves the way of real change for you.
Much Love xxx
