With Love

22nd October 2024 0 By SoulLee Connected

Please allow yourself space to just be, please allow yourself permission to pause, to stop, to come to a grinding halt if needed. Your desire to keep going, to strive, to push, to fight, to be busy has been imprinted within you as a way of coping, as a way of survival as a way of feeling on track, purposeful, worthy, valued/valuable, enough. Oh dearest heart you are enough, please allow yourself the space to just be. Is your body tired, is your mind tired, are you a little frazzled, emotional, its perfectly understandable for so many of you have been moving through so much this year and the thought of something else or the reality of even the tiniest thing coming up literally sends your nervous system, your emotional body, your heart into a spin.

There is nothing wrong with you but please allow yourself time to just stop, especially as we are heading so very fast into November soon enough and many feel the pressure of what Christmas is, not only the busyness of the season and the end of the year approaching but the feeling they have to get so much done before hand, and for some the emotional stress of what Christmas is for them starts to arise, they many not even be aware of its presence yet but the thought of being alone, being without certain people/loved ones either separated by land or those in Light, being with those that you don’t really have a connection with or have had a loving supportive relationship with, or you have trauma with/unresolved, unhealed experiences with can be starting to rise up and you aren’t even conscious of what your body is responding to with you. So it can feel a lot, a lot of pressure.

More than ever please honour yourself its PERFECTLY OKAY to not feel you can go on like you have been, for a moment, an hour, a day, a week. It’s okay to say no, its ok to say not today, it’s okay to want time alone, it’s okay to put you first in fact it is vital to your health and wellbeing, it doesn’t mean forsaking others or not caring about others in any way, it is valuing yourself enough to know that you need to make good choices that honour what you feel is right for you in that moment, knowing that those that care for you and love you, respect you will respect your choices when you express them from your heart, from a space of love. If others don’t understand you or your newly emerging version of self, you have changed, you have risen then that is okay. Perhaps they like that version of you that did things for them, that helped them with their own responsibilities, that sought to over-please, but you know you feel your change through your healing that version of you is gone and when you try to fit back into that mould of what you once were you can’t, you still try as you feel it is the right thing to do at times, for others, it is the threads that still haven’t come away of the old ways however you notice when you try to fit back in that it feels strange, you feel it’s not right, you just can’t, you have or will have to find a new way to be within certain relationships, friendships, and how you are engaging within them.

Many are listening to what they need for the first time in a long time, if not this lifetime and it takes time to acclimatise and adjust to this new you, it takes time. You may be finding it hard to step out of who you were and really BE who you are and are becoming because you fear what others think, if you express your beliefs truths and healing path they may not agree or having something to say, rubbish it, you fear being rejected or looking silly, they don’t understand it and some what they don’t understand they fear. You don’t have to share everything with everyone and this does become somewhat of a weeding out process, it doesn’t mean you lose relationships but rather you become aware of who you can talk to and who you can’t and it does become somewhat a feeling of shutting off who you really are because there may be no one around you that you can express what you are doing with (your spiritual journey) so it can feel for some isolating. Please know this is a part of the process, people move in and out of our lives and some we just know what we can and don’t wish to go there with. You are not alone although certain parts of the journey may feel very much this way. Reach out if you need someone to talk to, to share an experience, I am always on email soulleeconnected@gmail.comso if you are within my group I truly love to hear from you and I am here for you. We are all connected but at times can feel so disconnected and isolated. YOU ARE NEVER ALONE dearest heart if you feel this way reach out, express in the Group others do read it and so many don’t comment or like posts, they may not be ready to share and open up and your experience your vulnerability may be just what someone needs to read in that moment.

So please know it’s okay to not what to do something, to change your mind, to scale it back, it’s okay to feel you have had enough at times its been a lot for many this year. See your tiredness, your fatigue your emotional sensitivity as way of showing you just how incredible you are and just how much you have come through, that is BEHIND you. Allow yourself space to just be as we come through our spaces of transition and come to welcome the newness that is already present and will reveal in time. And it’s perfectly okay to go ahead and try something, start something new, never let fear hold you back from knowing the greatness of who you truly are, all experiences are food for the Soul there is no wrong. Failure is a word that has been deeply imbedded in many of us, it is fear and it stops us from being out greatest potential. Be patient with yourself, your judgement of yourself, your path, your space right now, what you have and haven’t done yet, your expectations of yourself others life lay them down and find your freedom in just being now, find your peace within your now, this is truly loving yourself.

With absolute Love dear hearts, Lee xxx